mediation is a thankless task but looking after pets is not

i risk losing someone for the sake of my own peace of mind. grappling with somthing that was never meant to be in the first place really hurts. naturally, some would say, you can't lose what you never had. did I, did we or do we, have anything? i want to......i hope we did......could it all have been just an over-reacting imagination?

a commotion happened at the club today. 2 male members almost came to blows. Mr. A asked Mr. B if it was appropriae for his 3-yr old daughter, junior B, to be in the male changing room. i did not know what was said but heard a very big argument in the locker rooms with the little girl screaming and crying. by the time i went in, all i heard was Mr. B calling Mr. A a bastard and trying to make him a lousy parent. in this case, i felt neither one was wrong but neither was both right. Mr. B for calling Mr. A a bastard countless times and Mr. A for using the wrong choice of words which triggered Mr. B off. mediation is such a thankless task, i tried but they wouldn't listen. in the end had to get a manager to talk with them.

i finally saw my favourite female member today. yeah! she was sick for sometime and i missed her coming on the previous 2 weekends. wow, she looks so beautiful now. when i first saw her, first thing that came to mind was, WOW! next was, "Damn, She's attached". hahaha. she rebonded her hair, trimed it a bit to shoulder-blade length and colored it back to black. you can call me a MCP but i have a soft spot for gals with long hair especially those with long, straight and black hair. in case u are wondering, she's 25 like me but graduated from NUS for about 3 years now. she's very nice and polite too. much like a person who USED to be my confidant. ahh man...such gals are few and far between, her fiance is so lucky. i wonder when i'll even have the joy and fortune of having a gf.

till today, why do people still insist on dressing their pets? it look very wierd. i was cycling home after work and as i passed by Tiong Bahru Plaza, yes the 2 Old English Sheepdogs were there (my favourites...heeez), i saw a small dog (not sure of the breed) all decked out in Ocean Pacific gear. i didn't know OP made sizes so small. it even had goggles on. hahaha. the sight was funny but i can't imagine the distress the poor dog had to go through. dogs are not scary. i'm willing to help you if you got a phobia of dogs. i've been chased by wild dogs, fought with a hungry mother dog, yet i still do not fear them. they are really lovable companions who are just out to protect themselves or their young when faced with danger. however i know i have neither the time nor money to commit to one now, so i'm just going to continue my pet-shop window shopping for now.