does feelings equates to niceness?

have you ever wondered why, no matter how exasperated you are with the other party, you are still nice to them? have you ever wondered how is it that you can have so much anger for someone, and yet still be nice to them?such is the mysteries of liking someone. if you don't have feelings for the other party, it will be difficult to bring yourself to be extra nice to the person.

feelings are emotional reactions we have to any given object or person. we feel because we care. it is not possible to have feelings for someone or something that you have neither seen nor heard. just as well, feelings have to be nurtured. feelings are like plants that grow within your heart. it provides comfort and creates anxiety. it is not easy to let someone go as easily as everyone thinks. just like allowing a plant to wither and die off, feelings which are not reciprocated have to be neglected and ignored, so too the party concerned. for any form of contact would be like a tiny morsel of water and sunlight which will just keep the plant alive.