if

all the regrets in this world starts with the word "if". if i had been less hard headed, i might have a girlfriend now instead of an enemy. if i had been more tactful, i would not have chased away a very dear friend of mine. the life of everyone would have been different. if...... i once wished that the "if's" would come true, that i would be given a chance to start all over again. however, what is before us is but a nightmare. people goes though our lives in a flash. the "if's" in our hearts are but wishful thinkings only. maybe that is why, i would rather be awake as much as i can then fall asleep and dream to fool myself. are not we all the same?