Phases & Timing

We go through different phases of our lives. For some of us, we had to go through even more hardships than others. For some, they have had issues but life has generally been ok. For some, it has been smooth sailing since the day they were born. Depending on which path the person took, it usually defines the kind of person the person will turn out to be.

I once believed that people will learn with time and they will improve, if given the support. Only when they chose to give up on themselves, then should they reap what they sowed. Same goes when looking for a life partner. At the time of meeting someone, that someone may not be ready to go into a life relationship. The person may be too young in mindset, attached at time of meeting or was simply not ready for a proper relationship. While waiting for the person to change, will the one waiting be keeping close contact? Or would the person not realise that the one that the person has been waiting for has grown up and ready for a relationship but miss it because of timing?