Thursday, November 30, 2006

The Flip Side

We all have our wants, our wishes, our desires. However, when I look back at my not too long life, I realised that many a times, I never did really got what I wanted, wished or desired. In fact, sometimes, I have desired for something which is the total opposite of what I had desired for in the first place. Hmmm......The flip side rule.

Day 160

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

24 Paragons of Filial Piety

Back at work today, with nothing much to do, I was surfing the net when I chanced upon an article. It was an article about the 24 Paragons of Filial Piety. Reading through it, it made me wonder how far from being filial I am. More often than not I have placed my mum and granny at their wits end. Haha. Haiz. Why does it takes something disatrous to happen before we begin to TRULY treasure our family membes?

Day 159

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

Family

A tragedy has struck home and has taken a family member ill. Alas, it struck out of the blue. No warnings, no symptoms. I pray that my Granny will recover from this episode. For as long as I can remember, she has always been there for me. When I was born, when I went through school, when I had a falling out with my mom, when I was trying to get a girlfriend. There are still many things in my life which she has yet to share with me and I hope that she can recover soon to partake in the little events of my life. Get well soon Granny.

Day 158

Monday, November 27, 2006

post-trip movie

there is a common after a flight overseas when back home. back in may, a week after returning from new zealand, i was watching the da vinci code in the cinemas with 2 friends. now, a week after i return from shanghai, i have just watched the da vinci code on my pc. hmmm.......did not realize this until after i finsihed the movie. hahaha.

Day 157

Sunday, November 26, 2006

Echos

A lone sound travels the valleys, in search of a reflective surface. A sound projected but the response is missing. With sound, there always is a response, an echo of sorts. Now the echo seems to be getting softer and softer.

Day 156

Saturday, November 25, 2006

Wind

As the wind softly blows, it brings with it a little bit of joy and a little bit of sorrow. To some, it is a welcome release from the heat, to others it is an ongoing torture from the cold. Lying underneath the blanket, feeling all nice and comfy, it is a welcome reprieve from the savages of time.

Day 155

Friday, November 24, 2006

Feelings

Love blinds one's judgement for it only leads one in a single direction.
I had considered giving up entirely but just do not have the resolve to do so.
I am truly worried about her for I am not even sure what kind of status I have in her heart.
In order not to destroy the delilcate balance that lies between us, I have held back in letting her know my feelings.
I had tried to tell her but the words just could not come out. It is as if she knows what I am about to say. Alas, when I finally bade her farewell, I felt like such a fool for letting go the opportunity. My heart feels so ladened, as if they were weighed down by stones.

All this while I though it was just normal care and concern on my part. Little did I realise that through this period, I have fallen for her. Now that I have spent time with her, even more I do not want to lose this feeling.

Day 154

Thursday, November 23, 2006

job hunting

after resting for a couple of days, started hunting for perm jobs again. out of the blue, i relogged in to check my dream job application status online and found that i had to do another questionnaire. hmmm......this never appeared earlier in the month. to think i made the application 3 months ago online, finally there seems to be some movement. anyway, i still got to look for other openings. there are bills to pay.

Day 153

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

fautly dvd-writer

stupid dvd-writer spoiled again. just got it exchanged for a new one earlier in the month and the new one got problems again. haiz. went down to eunos to get the dvd-writer exchanged again. this time there better not be any more problems.

Day 152

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Treadmill Test

Went for a treadmill test this morning. I have been having chest pains since young but every single doctor claims that it is a Musculo-Skeltal problem. Whatever that means. However, a polyclinic doctoc felt that to be on the safe sied, he referred me to the National Heart Centre to be certain of my condition. Even the Cardiologist at the Heart Centre feels that it is Muculo-Skeletal but to be on the safe side, he sent me for the treadmill test. Seems like the results are ok, I think. The conducting Doctor did not say anything. Ah well. I hope I am ok too.

Day 151

Monday, November 20, 2006

Home But......

I have arrived back in Singapore today but had to tear myself away from Shanghai this morning. It was with a heavy heart as I left Shanghai. The past 12 days were more than wonderful. It has been the most enjoyable time for me for I was spending it with Sweetie. Alas, I was too timid and could not express my feelings verbally. Words came out but "like" became "missed". Haiz.

17 November 2006

My flu finally cleared up enough for me to go for a walk around town today. I went on some DVD shopping and wanted to visit some of the old buildings in the city area. Alas, after I was done with the DVDs, the sky did not look good. I wanted to meet Sweetie at Jiao Tong University today but she was busy. She asked me to go walk around some more and that she will meet me later. Since I had yet to visit the Science Museum, I decided to go have a look.

It ain't cheap getting in, RMB60 to be exact. There were some interesting exhibits here and there but after visiting a few of the areas, I finally realised why I did not visit our very own Singapore Science Centre for so many donkey years. It is all the same. Nothing much. Well, they did have an audio-visual area which was pretty interesing. Here, you could try your hand on a very basic flight simulator with 3 degrees of freedom. What I felt was the best there was the sound studio where, with the aid of headphones, a ghost story was told and the creaks and gentle whispers manifested in a 3D-sound environment. Got my hair standing, especially since it was meant for 10 people to try but I did it solo. While walking around, I saw wall plaques around which listed some great scientists of past, such as Darwin, Einstien. I even saw a plaque which listed thermodynamic formulars! AHHHHHHH!!!! There was one plague which did catch my fancy. It was a plaque listing the Chinese Medical Herbs Compendium.
Medical Herbs Conpendium
Medical Herbs Conpendium
Medical Herbs Conpendium
Medical Herbs Conpendium
Today, we ate a place called Shu Yu Fang. Apparently, they are well known for their fish cusines here. As Sweetie does not really like spicy food, I had a hard time picking the dishes. Heez. Although my hotel was just 50meters away from the restaurant, I walked Sweetie home instead. I do not know if I will have many such opporunities and just want to enjoy the moments while they lasted.


18 November 2006

We had planned on going to the Century Park today to view the Mosiaculture Exhibition but it just kept on raining. Well, since we could not do much outdoor activity today, I asked Sweetie to stay at home to rest and work on her report. Afterall, we had our dinner date tonight.

I had made a reservation earlier in the week at the Grand Hyatt Shanghai. I had promised Sweetie that I will bring her there and even tried to get a view of Puxi for her to enjoy. When we were nearing the building, the low lying clouds made the Jinmao Tower, where Grand Hyatt Shanghai is located, look very errie. You could not see the top of the tower for the clouds were hanging around the 2/3 mark.

We strolled into the hotel and I could see that Sweetie was very happy tonight. She mentioned that she did not want to move much and I told her that she need only sit and wait to be served. Afterall it is a buffet and I did not want her to be jostling with the crowd. The food served was ok but the company I had that evening was the best! Heez. Seeing the smile on her face during the entire evening made me feel that it was all worth the effort coming to Shanghai to spend time with her.


19 November 2006

Today is the last day Sweetie could spend time with me for I am leaving on the 8.45am flight the next day back to Singapore. Seeing that she had stayed up late last night to work on her report after the dinner, I decided not to disturb her too early in the morning. When I opened the curtains of my hotel room, the ground was still wet but no one was walking around with umbrellas.

We finally met around lunchtime at a eatery near our place. Sweetie wanted to treat and I was happy to oblige. The food was not bad and the price was reasonable too. After lunch, we strolled towards Century Park to finally do the Mosiaculture Exhibition.

Century Park Entrance
Dancing Phoenix
Eiffel Tower
Jazz Band
Old Shanghai
Halfway through, it started to pour again but we both squeezed under one umbrella and continued to enjoy our time at the park. Haha. It was really fun to go walking in a park with her. The first time we went out together, just the two of us, was also to a park, our very own Botanical Gardens.

With the sky turning dark soon, she told me that she wanted to go to the shopping area near the Science Museum. Of course I readily agreed and we headed that way. The shopping area was also another place where you can get "stuff" and you can keep pressing the prices down. Hahaha. Well, nothing caught my fancy although I wanted to get her something but she did not get anything in the end either.

Our final meal together in Shanghai was at a little Japanese eatery. I tried to express my feelings then but could not mouth the words out. After dinner, we headed to my hotel for I had some maps for her. As I walked her back to her place, we chatted and I tried to bring my guts up to tell her. However, I still could not do it. When we finally reached the final junction before she reached home, we bade farewell. Before she left, I grabbed her arm and wanted to tell her that I liked her very much but "like" became "missed". Haiz. I felt like such a fool as I walked back to the hotel. Damn Fool!

Thursday, November 16, 2006

Greetings From Shanghai!

Finally was able to realise that I can update this blog but not able to view it. Some problem with the Chinese Authorities I guess.

9 November 2006

Finally touched down in Shanghai after a 4 hour flight from Bangkok. It has been 139 Days since I last saw Sweetie! It has been too long!

First impression I got was, this place has a bigger haze problem than us. It took me 40 minutes to clear customs! Haiz. After boarding the Airport bus to the Longyang Road MRT station, Sweetie soon called and lamented that I did not take the Maglev. Ah well, I was hoping to save some cash. However, I soon made my first mistake. When the bus arrived at the Longyang Road station, I informed the ticket inspector that I needed to collect my Backpack from the luggage compartment but the moment I alighted, the bus just drove away! What the! Thankfully there was a nearby Police Post nearby and they helped me to track down my bag. Sweetie soon arrived and we quickly rushed by cab to the terminal station to retrieve my bag.

When we finally retrieved my bag, we headed over to the hotel to check in. The hotel is pretty well located but very expensive! Seems like all hotels in the city area are expensive! This happeneds to be the cheapest of them all. As there was no single room available, I had to settle for a twin sharing room. After we finally settled down in my hotel room, I handed Sweetie the food stuff she asked me to bring along. She must really miss the food back home.

We then went out for a walk and she brought me to this cantonese cusine place. It really is a joy to finally see her again after so long. I really missed her. For the first time in my life, I am overseas on my birthday and I am glad to have her company. Well, I did not tell her it is my birthday today but what difference does it make? I am just happy to have spent part of this day with a person who is important to me. In case you are wondering, no hanky panky happened, so please scrub your minds clean.


10 November 2006

As she has to work on weekdays and attend classes on Fridays, I had to find ways to keep myself entertained. Went down to Longhua Temple today. It is one of the older temple in the Shanghai area. Well, I ain't a Buddhist but I went there to have a look anyway. I liked the old style structure and was there more to see the building then to worship.
Longhua Temple
On my way to the next destinaition, I picked up some Pao along the way. They sure are cheap here. Only RMB1 for a Big Pao! Haha.

My next destination was to the Soong Ching Ling's Mausoleum. Places I go to are most probably the places that many will shun. However, I am more of a historical person and went there to read more about her history and her life.
Soong Ching LIng's Mausoleum
As we had to leave early the next day for our train ride to Hangzhou, Sweetie came over to stay for the night at the hotel. Waited up for her as she was out with her boss and company's customer at a sending off dinner for her. She sure is popular here.


11 November 2006

Woke up early to take the MRT to the Shanghai South Train Station. Thankfully we had purchased sitting seats and had comfy seats for the 2 hour trip to Hangzhou. Apparently there is such a thing as standing room tickets. Luckily our coach was not packed in like sardines.

When we finally reached Hangzhou, the wind was gusting and the wind chill factor was at a high! We quickly went to check in at our hotel before heading out to the famous West Lake. However, on our way there, a local auntie heared that we were heading to West Lake and suggested we head over to Jiu Xi instead. She said that today the wind was gusting to heavily and thus not condusive for a boat ride on West Lake. Thus upon her adivce, we headed over to Jiu Xi after lunch. Had to eat first, we did not take any breakfast.

After a short bus ride, we soon arived at the path into Jiu Xi. As we walked in, you could feel the air being much cleaner and fresher! Ah! UNPOLLUTED AIR! Along the path, we passed a small farming community. You don't see such things back in Singapore.

While on our way to the Jiu Xi Scenic Park, a local uncle suddenly started to talk with us and introduced the area to us. The people of Hangzhou sure are friendly! He even recommended us to continue on after the Jiu Xi scenic spot along the road called Qian Long Road to the village of Long Jing.
Farming CommunityJiu Xi Waterfall
After visiting the mini waterfall, we headed on to Qian Long Road. The road was named Qian Long Road because many many moons ago, the Chinese Emperor Qian Long had walked along that path. DUH! Haha. Along the way, another auntie suddenly started chatting with us! HWAH! 3rd person to speak with us out of the blue today! The people here are indeed very friendly! She told us that she is a villager here and today was one of the rare times she had left the village to go out to settle some stuff. We chatted about village life and she thought we were from the South. We are from the South but waaaaaaay South. Haha. When she heard we were from Singapore she was amazed that we could speak such fluent Mandarin. Heez. She even invited us to her place to try the local Long Jing tea. Authentic! Geniune Sutff! Cannot Bluff! Haha. Bought some back for Mum & Granny. Not cheap ah! Haha.

The auntie then showed us the place where she planted her Long Jing Tea plants. The way her plants were planted, it looked like terrace planting. Secodary 4 Geography! Haha! We soon bade farewell to the auntie and flagged down a minivan to fetch us to the nearby silk manufacturer's place. The driver uncle even told us what we can expect and mentioned to us the 3 "treasures" of Hangzhou. Freshwwater Pearls, Long Jing tea leaves and Hangzhou Silk. Well, we had the Long Jing tea, we are headed to the silk manufacturer's place for Hangzhou silk. We did not get any Freshwater Pearls as they were very expensive even though this year is the harvesting year and the pearls are supposedly cheap. Apparently, the people here are only allowed to harvest the pearls only once every 5 years and we were lucky to be here at this time. However the cost were not cheap even with discounts and we decided to give it a pass.

After we had purchased the silk stuff, the sky was turning dark and we quickly made our way to the Yue Fei Tomb. The wind was still going strong and it was a very chilly wait for the bus to arrive. By the time we reached Yue Fei tomb, we decided not to go in as there was an entrance fee involved and we did not want to be caught in another Tourist Trap. Haha. We then strolled along the North side of West Lake and headed to the restaurant Lou Wai Lou. There were a lot of people there and we had to take a queue. Since there was a wait of about 20 minutes, we headed out to take more pictures.
Leifeng Pagoda
Beggar's Chicken
We tried out the Beggar's Chicken here and it was pretty good. The price also not too cheap. Haha. After dinner, we took a stroll across the Su Causeway to the South side of the West Lake. Even at night, the West Lake still looks very beautiful. Apparently, there are plenty of tombs of war heroes and literary scholors around West Lake.

Getting back into town was difficult as the buses were few and far between at that time and there were hardly any taxis available. In the end we had to settle for a bus which brought us back close enough and we walked. Sweetie wanted to do some shopping and we stopped at Smith & Calvin! Alas, the staff there could not speak English and were having problems with a caucassian couple. Seeing the difficulty they were in, we stepped in to assist the shop assistants. Haha. After she had bought her jacket, we then strolled back to our hotel where she had to continue her work on her IA report which is due next week.


12 November 2006

We chose to wake up early as we had yet to do a proper tour of the West Lake and quickly washed up and headed there. On our way there, another auntie suddenly spoke to us and again she encouraged us to go visit Jiu Xi first. Hahaha! When we reached the West Lake, it looked really nice.
Xi Hu
Xi Hu
We took a boat ride to visit the various islets in the lake. There was a tablet there written by Qian Long which had the word Chong Er. I later then realised what it actually meant.
San Tan Yin Yue
After we were done with the islets, we headed over to the Duan Qiao. This was the bridge, according to the Madam White Snake folklore, where Xu Xian met Bai Su Zhen. Or was it where they accepted each other's love? Hmm......
Duan Qiao
Soon it was time to head back to Shanghai and we rushed back to the hotel after lunch to get our stuff before checking out. This time, although we had comfy seats, the coach was packed in like sardines. Argg!

When we reached Shanghai, my next hotel is situated outside the city area and within a stone's throw of Sweetie's apartment. This hotel is somewhat like a budget hotel. Like a normal hotel, it only did not have any carpet flooring and a shower head instead of a bathtub. Else, at half the rate of a city hotel, this can be a pretty comfortable place to stay. After we checked in, I could see that she was very tired and I suggested that we have a quick dinner after which I walked her back.


13 November 2006

On my own again today, I went to get the tickets for the Shanghai Plant Sculpture Exhibition before heading to the Shanghai Science and Technology Museum. Alas, it is closed on Mondays. Since I was in the vicinity, I took a walk around to see the parks there.
Century Park
After a while, I headed over to the vicinity of the Oriental Pearl. Apparently it costs RMB100 just to go all the way to the top. Expensive. I then went over to the Grand Hyatt Shanghai to place my reservation for this coming Saturday. I had read how the staff treated those who can speak Mandarin differently from those who speak English, I stuck to English the entire time I was there. Haha. It sure was a test of resolve on my part not to break into Mandarin, seeing the difficulty the staff had at speaking staccato English. Although the buffet here ain't cheap, RMB298 per person, but the view is just as good as the Oriental Pearl and we got food. So why not? Haha.
The Bund
While shopping at the Super Brands Mall there, I realised that not everything is cheap over there. Sweetie met me there after work and she looked really pretty. Looking at myself, dressed only in my jeans and jersey top, I felt under dressed and undeserving of her company. We headed over to a place called Chamate for dinner. The food there is so-so but the "bak-chor" is good. Maybe it is her company that I crave for. Anything else is just secondary. Haha.
Dinner at Chamate
Oriental Pearl at Night

14 November 2006

Went out looking for the Shanghai TV & Movie city but had mistaken the Shanghai Film City as my place of destination. Argg! Apparently the TV & Movie city is at the Songjiang district, which is outside of Shanghai City, whereas the Film City is just a cineplex. Waste my time. Hahaha.

I then headed over to the Shanghai Stadium to get my tickets for One-Day tour to Zhou Zhuang tomorrow and Suzhou the day after. The trips do not cost too much though.

Next stop for the day was to the old street of Shanghai. It is a bit like a run-down version of our Chinatown. Also, there is a market nearby where you could pick up stuff. You know what I mean. Haha.
Fang Bang Zhong Lu
Fang Bang Zhong Lu
Fang Bang Zhong Lu
Fang Bang Zhong Lu
Met Sweetie later that evening at Dong Chang Road area, where we had our dinner at Bi Feng Tang. When I laid my eyes on her, SHE WAS SO PRETTY! I am so HAPPY!


15 November 2006

Went on the One-Day tour of Zhou Zhuang today. I was almost late for the bus but made it just in time. Was feeling a bit fluish but nonetheless, just wanted to go visit a waterside town.

Alas, the place is a bloody tourist trap! No cheapo food anywhere. Had to settle for eating in the restaurant. Haiz. The bulding there were of the old designs and sure gave a feel of time past. One of the placed visited was the old home of Shen Wan San, the rich guy of days goneby.
Shuang Qiao
Ancient Study Room
The temple was a nice place to visit but they were very persistent in getting people to donate money or to "fang sheng". Haiz. It was so business like.
Temple
The tour even included a visit to the nearby silk manufacturer's store, with a fashion show to boot! BUT......the models all cannot make it, very stiff. However, have to give them the credit of doing the show. By the time we headed back to Shanghai, we got caught in the typical afterwork rush.

I felt so bad having to make Sweetie wait for me to return before going for dinner. In the end we settled at a nearby beef noodle place. Following that, we ended dinner with a visit to the nearby dim sum place for some hot Soya Bean milk and Xiao Long Bao. My verdict on the Xiao Long Bao? Cannot compare to those served at Crystal Jade back home.
Xiao Long Bao

16 November 2006

Woke up with a splitting headache and under the weather. It finally rained today while I was rushing to the stadium to catch my tour bus. Alas I was 1 minute late and the bus had driven off. Thankfully I could get at least 50% of my ticket refunded. I then slowly made my way back to the hotel to rest for the day. Damn! It sucks to fall ill on a holiday.

Spent the entire day in the hotel today recovering from my illness. Did not even get to meet her today. Also good, did not want to pass the germs on to her. Until I get back to Singapore, take care!

Thursday, November 09, 2006

pit stop


at my first pit stop now. first time in the land of a thousand smiles. damn, there sure are a number of pretty babes around. hahaha. as always, when come to pit stop, must release. hahahaha!

Everybody hanging around for the stupid plane to start boarding.


The plane in question. Taking forever to board. Haiz.


Day 139

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

last minute stuff

went around singapore today getting some last minute stuff done up. real tired now. yawn! oh and erm......Malcolm, the hrc over there is closed, dunno can still get the pin or not.

Day 138

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

handing over

on the day my contract ends, i finally got my name at my work station. hahaha! no more being a ufo. guess must be due to the new ceo making his rounds today. ah well. had to clear some remaining issues with my colleague and hand over all my work stuff. handing over is a real headache. got offered a second stint with the company again and i agreed in principal. would love to stay on in a permanent capacity but alas, there is no available position now.

Day 137

Monday, November 06, 2006

packing the office table

the new CEO is coming to our floor tomorrow for his introductory tour and we have to clean up our work stations. no snacks and toys to be out on display. we were all joking about this being like area cleaning. stand by work station! hahahaha!

Day 136

Sunday, November 05, 2006

aching thighs

just one stupid shuttle run and my thighs are aching. i have to start exercising again. if not for my knees, i wuold be cycling already. arggggggg!!!!

Day 135

Saturday, November 04, 2006

ippt?

just came home from my yearly ippt. hmmm.....my results this year are worse than last year. 10 less situps, 0.8 seconds slower on shuttle run, 10cm less for standing broad jump, no increase for pull up, no diff for 2.4km run. hahahahaha!

Day 134

Friday, November 03, 2006

preparing

next week will see another milestone for me. so happy! hahahaha. can't wait for it to happen!

Day 133

Thursday, November 02, 2006

honest and direct? bull!

there are some people whom i know whose mouth claim that they are direct and that those who don't like it or cannot take it can shove it. well, to these direct people, UP YOURS!

Day 132

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

job fairs? bah!

my contract is about to be up and i would be soon buming out in the streets again. ah well. i don't like going to job fairs as i feel that employers there are only looking for 2 types of people. those who are willing to work for low pay or those who have exceedingly good results and high honors degrees. i am not generalizing as the job fairs i have been to since my poly days have all been this way. i have never ever gotten any replies from openings i applied from job fairs. haiz. in case you are wondering, i have never ever asked for high salary, always only stating a rate that is the market rate. sad is the elitist attitudes many employers have. haiz.

Day 131